Memorial services vs funerals: Understanding the difference
In the 1960s, researchers outlined the five common phases of emotion we typically go through when experiencing grief. These are known as the Five Stages of Grief – you can read more about them here. ‘Bargaining’ is the third stage, after denial and anger, and before depression and acceptance.
Grief doesn’t have a timeline or predefined path, so it’s perfectly normal to go through the stages in a different order or not go through some of them at all. Bargaining, however, can be a difficult stage to move through. Here’s why.
What is a funeral?
A funeral is a ceremony that marks someone’s passing. The service typically involves a gathering of family and friends in a designated place, like a church, chapel or funeral home, and is held within a few weeks of someone passing. A casket of coffin is usually present, and the service tends to follows a structured format, which might include religious or cultural rituals, eulogies and music. It may also include a procession to the burial plot or crematorium.
However you wish to honour your loved one, we can make it happen. We’ll help you personalise the service in a way that feels special and unique.
What is a memorial service?
A memorial service is a heartfelt commemorative gathering held without a casket or coffin. Unlike a funeral, a memorial service can be scheduled several weeks or months after death. It’s an opportunity for friends and family to come together again, after the initial shock has passed.
If your loved one was cremated and you chose to inter their ashes at a memorial park or garden, you might hold a memorial service there to feel connected to them. You can also hold a memorial service at your loved one’s grave or somewhere special, like a favourite beach, park or venue. Let us know what you’d like to do, and we’ll take care of the details.
Other ways to memorialise a loved one
There are plenty of ways to remember and honour your loved one after they’re gone.
Each option encourages people to gather, connect and celebrate the life of your loved one. You might even choose to do all three.
Memorial service
Online memorials
Commemorative events
